Emotional Blackmail

This morning, I 'kena' the ultimate emotional blackmail from Beth.

We were waiting outside kinder for her teacher to arrive, and she took refuge in J's pram to have breakfast and avoid the cold wind.

I carried J around a little bit, and came back to find Beth sitting quietly and solemnly.

"You alright there?" I asked.

She gave me THAT LOOK.

"Mummy," she began, "You spend so much time with Baby that you have no time to spend with me."

Ouch.

She's right, of course.

But hearing it said to my face was rather confronting and uncomfortable, and I felt a bit defensive.

"It won't always be like this," I tried to reassure Beth. "It's just that Mei Mei can't walk or talk yet and is still breastfeeding, so she needs Mummy all the time."

At bath time, I tried to make it up to Beth by reading a story to her - twice - as requested.

At lunch time, I made sure to chat with her as she ate, and not just busy myself shovelling food into J's mouth.

But I can't guarantee Beth won't feel neglected again tomorrow.

It's hard work giving equal attention to both girls.