Stories for Our Children

Monday, October 15, 2007

Separation Anxiety

J is turning out to be a textbook model of separation anxiety.

Read an article on BellyBelly today.

Was relieved to be told that:
  • Picking J every time she cries won't spoil her. On the contrary, it will help her feel less grizzly.
  • The more I carry, cuddle and interact with her, the more comforted and secure she will learn to be.
  • This clinginess is a phase she's going through. Once she's learnt to form a secure attachment, she'll be off and running on her own.

It's amazing how much I'm having to relearn stuff from when Beth was the same age.

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