What is it with toddlers??
Every morning I face the same battle with J.
She wakes up whinging and wants me to hold her. I have my eye on the clock as I frantically try to wake Beth, who always has a lie-in till the last possible moment.
Meanwhile, J won't let me dress her or change her diaper.
When it's time to go, she won't put on her socks.
I say "No Socks No Play" and she yells back, "Noooo!"
She refuses to wear a jacket, however cold it may be.
I'm lucky if I get her to wear a second T-shirt or her cute red vest with the picture of the lion on it.
Every evening at bath time, she fights with me.
Won't go under the shower.
Won't let me soap her. She wants to do it herself, but she takes FOREVER.
Won't let me rinse off the shampoo and soap.
When my patience runs out, I grab her and plunge her under the shower (it's not as bad as it sounds) so get the lather off.
How she screams and yells and tries to flee the shower area!
The neighbours must think I abuse my kids or else that I'm hopeless incompetent at managing them.
Now I let hubby take over at bath time.
He is so much more patient and willing to humour them.
I praise J lavishly when she comes to tell me she has bathed.
It's easier to play the good guy.
Labels: Bath, Discipline, Independence, Mom challenges