Kids Can't Be Rushed

My hubby and I notice that Beth can be chatty if she's in the mood, but if she isn't and you push her to behave "politely", she will dig in her heels stubbornly and refuse to fall in with you.

Example:
Mum's pal in Melbourne - Irene - bought Beth a Dr Seuss book.
Mum insisted Beth thank Irene when Irene called to chat with Mum.
Beth was not in the mood and refused.
Mum got upset and felt Beth was being rude and disobedient.
Hubby and I had to explain why Beth behaved the way she did.

Today, Irene called.
Beth happened to be in a good mood.
Mum asked if she would like to thank Irene for her book and the choc cake Irene bought her.
Beth said yes.
Here's what she said excitedly into the receiver: "Aunty Irene, I LOVED your choc cake and the book!"
Result?
Irene is buying her another choc cake!